1440 Multiversity, 800 Bethany Drive
Scotts Valley, CA 95066
A retreat with Helen Fisher, Terry Real, Celeste Hirschman, Dimitry Yakoushkin, Michaela Boehm, Steve James, Diane Poole Heller, and other teachers, leading scientists, and artists. Facilitated by Zaya and Maurizio Benazzo.
We all long for love. We long to be intimately connected to ourselves and others. For some, a partnership or marriage is the natural outcome of this longing. Others find alternative styles of intimacy more fulfilling. For most of us, love and sexuality can be complex and confusing. We live in a dynamic time of transition with post patriarchy relationships, gender equality, new femininity and masculinity, modern parenting and modern sexual dynamics.
Radiant intimacy is an emerging field of exploration bringing awareness to the topics of relationships, sexuality, and love while drawing from psychology, trauma theory, modern evolutionary biology and science sex research. By bringing together practitioners from a multiplicity of backgrounds and disciplines, we will give you tools to navigate the complexities of modern day relating and expand your experience of intimacy.
Through carefully crafted exercises, keynote lectures, targeted workshops, potent meditations, and performances, you will engage the concept of radiant intimacy, and how to express and integrate it within a spiritual path. You will also explore:
Why Attend?
Prerequisites:
None required
Experience Level:
None required
Our home for the retreat will be the 1440 located in the beautiful redwoods near Santa Cruz, CA https://1440.org/
Time | Description |
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2:15 pm | Check-in begins. Rooms ready by 4:00 pm |
4:45 pm – 5:45 pm | Supplementary Classes: Yoga, Tai Chi, Qigong, or Meditation |
5:30 pm – 7:00 pm | Dinner |
6:45 pm – 7:15 pm | Guest Welcome Session |
Opening Program | |
7:30 pm – 8:00 pm | Maurizio & Zaya - Opening and introduction of presenters. |
Evening Session | |
8:00 pm – 9:00 pm |
The Drive to Love: Romance in the Digital Age with Helen Fisher Room 101 Anthropologist and neuroscientist Dr. Helen Fisher uses her brain scanning work (fMRI) to discuss three brain systems that evolved for mating and reproduction–the sex drive; romantic love; and attachment; and maintains that these basic mating instincts will not alter due to Internet dating. But the Internet is changing how we court and who we choose. Hooking up? Friends with Benefits? Polyamory? Fisher then uses her data on 35,000 single Americans to explain modern dating tactics—from Millennials to Seniors—and the newest trend in courtship, what she calls “slow love.” She also proposes that humanity has evolved four broad basic styles of thinking and behaving which draw us naturally toward one person rather than another—in love and business. And she discusses the biological underpinnings of love at first sight, love addiction, adultery and divorce. Last she shows some of the brain circuitry of long-term romantic happiness and explains how to use neuroscience to keep love alive." |
9:00 pm - 9:30 pm | Room 101 Q&A with Helen Fisher |
Time | Description |
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6:45 am – 7:45 am | Supplementary Classes: Yoga, Tai Chi, Qigong, or Meditation |
7:00 am – 9:00 am | Breakfast |
Morning Sessions | |
9:00 am – 10:25 am |
Enhancing Spiritual Maturation by Healing Early Attachment Wounds and Embracing Secure Relationships with Diane Heller Sanctuary Room Learning objectives:
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10:30 am – 11:50 am |
Men & Women In Love: The Future of Romance with Terry Real Sanctuary Room Learn the art of standing up for yourself with love - asserting yourself and cherishing your partner in the same breath. And then learn how to listen and respond with a generous heart, so that you deal well with conflicts as they arise and keep things between you honest and alive. |
12:00 pm –12:15pm |
Introduction of afternoon program with Terry Real and Michaela Boehm Sanctuary Room |
11:30 am – 1:30pm | Lunch |
Afternoon Concurrent Sessions | |
2:00 pm – 5:00 pm |
The Wild Woman’s Way: The Embodied Feminine: Michaela Boehm with women Sanctuary Room |
2:00 pm – 5:00 pm |
The Masculine Dilemma: Our Next Frontier: Terry Real with men Room 201 “Be sensitive. Be strong. Just listen to me. Tell me about your feelings. Throw me against a wall and just do me! Be gentle. Be in control. Act like a man! Don’t act like a man! Just be yourself!” Conservatives reassert old mores, some progressives speak like they want to throw the whole thing out. But it’s up to each of us to look at the legacy we’ve been handed, figuring out what to kill; what to keep, and what to pass on to our kids. What is the legacy that was handed to you? How was it transmitted? Through exercise and discussion we will look at ourselves as men - we will look at the messages given from our fathers in particular but also our mothers and the culture. We will explore what it means to live whole, relational lives. |
4:45 pm – 5:45 pm | Supplementary Classes: Yoga, Tai Chi, Qigong, or Meditation |
5:30 pm – 7:00 pm | Dinner |
Evening Session | |
7:30 pm – 9:30 pm | Whole group integration with Terry Real & Michaela Boehm Sanctuary Room |
Time | Description |
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6:45 am – 7:45 am | Supplementary Classes: Yoga, Tai Chi, Qigong, or Meditation |
7:00 am – 9:00 am | Breakfast |
Morning Concurrent Sessions | |
9:00 am - 12:00 pm |
Radical Intimacy And The Play Of The Erotic with Michaela Boehm & Steve James Sanctuary Room |
9:00 am - 12:00 pm |
Deepen Intimacy Through Erotic Embodiment and Emotional Vulnerability with Celeste Hirschman & Dimitry Yakoushkin Room 201 |
11:30 am – 1:30 pm | Lunch |
Afternoon Concurrent Sessions | |
2:00 pm - 5:00 pm |
Ecstasy & Mystery with Michaela Boehm & Steve James Sanctuary Room We'll first engage in a series of practices to sensitize and open both body and heart, resulting in greater feeling capacity and sensitivity towards yourself and others. Once the body and heart are sufficiently relaxed and sensitized, we will dive into the mysteries of erotic friction by engaging with the full spectrum of energetic offerings and touch, from the sublime light to the mysterious dark. In this session you will engage with practices and disciplines of creating ecstatic play in all aspects of your life. Using cutting edge explorations & new practices, we will be inviting not just understanding of these principles, but true embodiment of them. |
2:00 pm - 5:00 pm |
The Art of Giving and Receiving Sensual Consent with Celeste Hirschman & Dimitry Yakoushkin Room 201 |
4:45 pm - 5:45 pm | Supplementary Classes: Yoga, Tai Chi, Qigong, or Meditation |
5:30 – 7:00 pm | Dinner |
Evening Session & Dance | |
8:00 pm – 10:00 pm |
Dance Sanctuary Room |
Time | Description |
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6:45 am – 7:45 am | Supplementary Classes: Yoga, Tai Chi, Qigong, or Meditation |
7:00 am – 9:00 am | Breakfast |
Morning Session | |
9:00 am - 12:00 pm |
Q&A with Michaela Boehm, Steve James, Celeste & Dimitri and group sharing time . Room 101 |
12:00 noon | Check-out time |
11:30 am – 1:00 pm | Lunch (Included on day of departure) |
1440 Multiversity, 800 Bethany Drive
Scotts Valley, CA 95066
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